Thursday, September 13, 2012

Time to explore next step in budget

I have always worked with detailed budget, watched every rupee coming in and going out of my system.

Now with a baby in picture, that is just too time consuming.

From last so many days I am working on seeing where my time is going and what all I can cut back to save on TIME.

And I know too much detailed budgeting is one thing which eats up time that I should free.

So finally, I am writing this post and ACCEPTING that it's time to change.

After exploring lots of things I have decided that I need to come up with something similar to balanced money formula as preached by JD Roth of Get Rich Slowly.

His exact formula is something like

     30% wants

     20% savings

     50% needs.

I have to come up with something similar.

I am going to come up with my own balanced money formula by November.
(This is because I am joining my job only on coming Monday which means no pay cheque at end of september also.)

If you have any suggestions on this, please let me know.

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Every rupee saved is a rupee that earns 6%

This is my favorite line now a days.

I totally love all the advertisements of kotak bank on this theme.
  • Save on petrol and that saved money is the money that is earning 6%.
  • Save on eating out and earn 6% on your saved money.
  • Even when you are spending, use their debit card and earn cash back which is then going to earn 6% for you.

If that doesn’t motivates you to save, I don’t know what else will.

P.S. I still don’t have any account with kotak bank. Go figure out!
 

Monday, September 10, 2012

2012 Goals Tracking - August End

These are my goals for 2012.
Health:
1H) Aim to get back to my pre-preg day’s weight.

Financial:
Goals to work on once I join back my job

1F) I want to bring our mortgage to such an extent where my house can service itself.
2F) Maintain my EF as 3 months of expenses.
3F) If I can save for retirement as much as I did in 2010, that will be a good punch to future expenses.


Newly Added(missed in setting goals but was always there in my mind)
Goals to work on till I am on leave (unpaid and would be bonus if can be continued even when I join back)
4F) Manage our all monthly expenses within my DH's salary.


Personal :
1P) To start the habit of getting up at 6:00 in the morning.
2P) I think one of the most vague yet most important goals is to maintain a WORK-LIFE balance once I join back my job.

It's August end and let's see how am I fairing in these goals.


Over to tracking now:
Goal 1H - Bringing my weight and stamina to pre-preg days - FAIL. I still have my weight lingering at 2KGs above my pre-preg days. But its not that unhealthy given I was underweight a little earlier. Now I need to work badly on my stamina because there are some days that want me to cry. :(

Goal 1F - Bringing down mortgage - NA Yet. No more applicable actually as must have been clear from my March update. I did some changes in my long term savings and hence ended with some extra money in bank. We did some calculations and decided that we want to prepay our mortgage# 2 with that money. Bad news is I can't do that until end of september. I am going to do same after september ends for sure.

Goal 2F - Having EF as 3 months of living Expenses - FAIL. No Salary for mamma and 3 birthdays, all 3 of us, in this month means no room for savings.

Goal 3F - Save for Retirement - FAIL.

Goal 4F - Survive on DH's salary alone- FAIL. Same as 2F

Goal 1P- Getting up early - FAIL. With no job to goto, I am back to my pre-marriage days bad bad habit. I goto bed late and get up late. My BAD.

Goal 2P- Having a balanced life - FAIL. Well I was searching for job. That with baby was my only priority. Rest all, cooking at home, savings and everything else went out the window. But Good part is I got a job, which I am going to start 17th of September.

This was about me. How was your August?

Recap
January
April
May
June
July
 

2012 Goals Tracking - July End


I missed doing my monthly reviews for past couple of months. Will let you know why, but for now here is my July review.

These are my goals for 2012.
Health:
1H) Aim to get back to my pre-preg day’s weight.

Financial:
Goals to work on once I join back my job

1F) I want to bring our mortgage to such an extent where my house can service itself.
2F) Maintain my EF as 3 months of expenses.
3F) If I can save for retirement as much as I did in 2010, that will be a good punch to future expenses.


Newly Added(missed in setting goals but was always there in my mind)
Goals to work on till I am on leave (unpaid and would be bonus if can be continued even when I join back)
4F) Manage our all monthly expenses within my DH's salary.


Personal :
1P) To start the habit of getting up at 6:00 in the morning.
2P) I think one of the most vague yet most important goals is to maintain a WORK-LIFE balance once I join back my job.

It's July end and let's see how am I fairing in these goals.


Over to tracking now:
Goal 1H - Bringing my weight and stamina to pre-preg days - NO Clue. I don't even remember where I stood at the end of July.

Goal 1F - Bringing down mortgage - NA Yet. No more applicable actually as must have been clear from my March update.
Goal 2F - Having EF as 3 months of living Expenses - PASS. Ontrack for the first time in this year on this goal. YIPPEEE
Goal 3F - Save for Retirement - PASS.
Goal 4F - Survive on DH's salary alone- PASS. Cheating. My husband got his bonus, hence, again for the first time this year, I cracked even this one. ;)

Goal 1P- Getting up early - PASS. I got up between 7:00 AM to 7:30 AM almost all weekdays.
Goal 2P- Having a balanced life - Not Sure. Yes. I had a tiff with my manager and I quit my job in middle of month. Well I am known to work on my terms and conditions. Don't get me wrong. I have always got feedback that I am very professional and thorough with my work. I always expect basic respect in a job. Thats how I treat even my domestic help. Hence I quit and started another job search.


This was about me. How was your July? Well too late to ask this. :(

Recap
January
April
May
June
 

2012 Goals Tracking - June End

I missed doing my monthly reviews for past couple of months. Will let you know why, but  for now here is my June review.

These are my goals for 2012.
Health:
1H) Aim to get back to my pre-preg day’s weight.

Financial:
Goals to work on once I join back my job

1F) I want to bring our mortgage to such an extent where my house can service itself.
2F) Maintain my EF as 3 months of expenses.
3F) If I can save for retirement as much as I did in 2010, that will be a good punch to future expenses.


Newly Added(missed in setting goals but was always there in my mind)
Goals to work on till I am on leave (unpaid and would be bonus if can be continued even when I join back)
4F) Manage our all monthly expenses within my DH's salary.


Personal :
1P) To start the habit of getting up at 6:00 in the morning.
2P) I think one of the most vague yet most important goals is to maintain a WORK-LIFE balance once I join back my job.

It's June end and let's see how am I fairing in these goals.


Over to tracking now:
Goal 1H - Bringing my weight and stamina to pre-preg days - NO Clue. I don't even remeber where I stood at the end of June.

Goal 1F - Bringing down mortgage - NA Yet. No more applicable actually as must have been clear from my March update.
Goal 2F - Having EF as 3 months of living Expenses - FAIL. No explanation.
Goal 3F - Save for Retirement - PASS.
Goal 4F - Survive on DH's salary alone- FAIL. This year I am doomed to fail everywhere finance. :(

Goal 1P- Getting up early - PASS. I got up between 7:00 AM to 7:30 AM almost all weekdays.
Goal 2P- Having a balanced life - PASS.


This was about me. How was your June? Well too late to ask this. :(

Recap
January
April
May

Just Married Please Excuse - Review


Just Married Please Excuse

This book is written by one of the regular bloggers who blogs on “Y On Earth Not”.

If you are newly married, or you are a new mother then do spend some time and read this book. Book will not only make you laugh, but you will also get answers for lots of your apprehensions.

I especially liked her description of life after baby is born. All the pampering’s plus all feel-good-na-best hormones of last 9 months all of the sudden go out of door. You will start having doubts whether you were only used to produce a baby. Well, book will convince you for sure that all of us feel something similar and will make you laugh on same.

Yes book is funny but more than that its REAL. For me it answered all my apprehensions of life after baby. I am sure for some of you it will answer apprehensions about marriage.

One of the rare books I am going to recommend to all my friends esp. in these phases of life. Already gifted to my 2 friends who have just become mother.

P.S. Thanks Yashodra for gifting me same. It certainly makes it all the more special. I was anyhow looking for this book and would have liked it even otherwise.

Monday, June 18, 2012

2012 Goals Tracking - May End

These are my goals for 2012.
Health:
1H) Aim to get back to my pre-preg day’s weight.

 Financial:
Goals to work on once I join back my job

1F) I want to bring our mortgage to such an extent where my house can service itself.
2F) Maintain my EF as 3 months of expenses.
3F) If I can save for retirement as much as I did in 2010, that will be a good punch to future expenses.


 
Newly Added(missed in setting goals but was always there in my mind)
Goals to work on till I am on leave (unpaid and would be bonus if can be continued even when I join back)
4F) Manage our all monthly expenses within my DH's salary.


Personal :
1P) To start the habit of getting up at 6:00 in the morning.
2P) I think one of the most vague yet most important goals is to maintain a WORK-LIFE balance once I join back my job.

It's May end (OK Mid-June, but I had a family emergency in beginning of the month, so better late then never) and let's see how am I fairing in these goals.

Over to tracking now:

Goal 1H - Bringing my weight and stamina to pre-preg days - PASS. How good it feels do you know. I have lost 3 KGs in one month, not bad ha. Factis that none of this is because of regular exercise just because of extra work ( my cook ditched me :() and all the extra stress of that emergency. :( But I lost 3 KGs, yipppeeee!!!!

Goal 1F - Bringing down mortgage - NA Yet. No more applicable actually as must have been clear from my March update.
Goal 2F - Having EF as 3 months of living Expenses - FAIL. I needed some work for my newly bought home, namely Wood Work. This is over now (in June I mean) and I am shifting to my new place in June end. So, yipppee, next thing to deal with is my EF ofcourse.
Goal 3F - Save for Retirement - PASS.
Goal 4F - Survive on DH's salary alone- FAIL. Finally. Again. :( My head is hanged low, truts me. What kind of PF blogger am I? But I am promising my self this will be taken care of July onwards.

Goal 1P- Getting up early - PASS. I got up between 7:00 AM to 7:30 AM almost all weekdays.
Goal 2P- Having a balanced life - PASS.


This was about me. How was your May? And in fact howz your June shaping up?

Recap
January
April

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

2012 Goals Tracking - April End

These are my goals for 2012.
Health:
1H) Aim to get back to my pre-preg day’s weight.

 Financial:
Goals to work on once I join back my job

1F) I want to bring our mortgage to such an extent where my house can service itself.
2F) Maintain my EF as 3 months of expenses.
3F) If I can save for retirement as much as I did in 2010, that will be a good punch to future expenses.


 
Newly Added(missed in setting goals but was always there in my mind)
Goals to work on till I am on leave (unpaid and would be bonus if can be continued even when I join back)
4F) Manage our all monthly expenses within my DH's salary.


Personal :
1P) To start the habit of getting up at 6:00 in the morning.
2P) I think one of the most vague yet most important goals is to maintain a WORK-LIFE balance once I join back my job.

It's April end and let's see how am I fairing in these goals.

Over to tracking now:

Goal 1H - Bringing my weight and stamina to pre-preg days - FAIL. I went to GYM for only 4 days. I am still maintaining (very) active lifestyle but I know to get back in shape I need to exercise more. :(

Goal 1F - Bringing down mortgage - NA Yet. No more applicable actually as must have been clear from my last month's update.
Goal 2F - Having EF as 3 months of living Expenses - FAIL. For now this is almost depleted. Have to bring it back.
Goal 3F - Save for Retirement - PASS.
Goal 4F - Survive on DH's salary alone- PASS. Finally.

Goal 1P- Getting up early - PASS. I got up between 7:00 AM to 7:30 AM almost all weekdays.
Goal 2P- Having a balanced life - PASS.


This was about me. How was your April?

Recap
January


Wednesday, April 4, 2012

2012 Goals Tracking - March End

These are my goals for 2012.

Health:
1H) Aim to get back to my pre-preg day’s weight.

Financial:
Goals to work on once I join back my job

1F) I want to bring our mortgage to such an extent where my house can service itself.
2F) Maintain my EF as 3 months of expenses.
3F) If I can save for retirement as much as I did in 2010, that will be a good punch to future expenses.

Newly Added(missed in setting goals but was always there in my mind)
Goals to work on till I am on leave (unpaid and would be bonus if can be continued even when I join back)
4F) Manage our all monthly expenses within my DH's salary.

Personal :
1P) To start the habit of getting up at 6:00 in the morning.
2P) I think one of the most vague yet most important goals is to maintain a WORK-LIFE balance once I join back my job.

It's March end and let's see how am I fairing in these goals, but before that lets have a little update from my end.

1) Well March was an expensive month. I have bought a new house in Hyderabad. I know it will keep me occupied in my already busy life but I want to also tell that it was purely my decision. I have done lots of calculations and am sure this will be beneficial in long term but it will make coming 10-12 months very exciting. My net worth has taken a dip for the first time since I have started tracking it. But I know this all good in long term and falls inline with my long term financial goals.

So this will lead to modification of my financial goals.

I will do a separate post detailing modified goals. For this month, lets track original goals.

2) I finally joined back my office. Yesterday was my first day after a long long break. Real challenge now starts.

Over to tracking now:

Goal 1H - Bringing my weight and stamina to pre-preg days - PASS. Though I'll be officially joining GYM only once I join back my office, I am trying to maintain an active lifestyle. Doing some household chores, taking stairs, taking care of my baby is improving my stamina slowly. And now since I have joined back office, I am going to slowly start exercising. :)

Goal 1F - Bringing down mortgage - NA Yet. No more applicable actually as must have been clear from my update.
Goal 2F - Having EF as 3 months of living Expenses - FAIL. For now this is almost depleted. Have to bring it back.
Goal 3F - Save for Retirement - PASS.
Goal 4F - Survive on DH's salary alone- FAIL. We had to dip in our savings by 18K. There are so many misc. expenses when you are buying a house. This scene is going to be same for some of the next coming months :(

Goal 1P- Getting up early - PASS. I got up between 7:00 AM to 7:30 AM almost all weekdays.
Goal 2P- Having a balanced life - PASS.


This was about me. How was your March?

Recap
January

Saturday, March 3, 2012

2012 Goals Tracking - February End

These are my goals for 2012.

Health:
1H) Aim to get back to my pre-preg day’s weight.

Financial:
Goals to work on once I join back my job

1F) I want to bring our mortgage to such an extent where my house can service itself.
2F) Maintain my EF as 3 months of expenses.
3F) If I can save for retirement as much as I did in 2010, that will be a good punch to future expenses.

Newly Added(missed in setting goals but was always there in my mind)
Goals to work on till I am on leave (unpaid and would be bonus if can be continued even when I join back)
4F) Manage our all monthly expenses within my DH's salary.

Personal :
1P) To start the habit of getting up at 6:00 in the morning.
2P) I think one of the most vague yet most important goals is to maintain a WORK-LIFE balance once I join back my job.

It's February end and let's see how am I fairing in these goals.

Goal 1H - Bringing my weight and stamina to pre-preg days - PASS. Though I'll be officially joining GYM only once I join back my office, I am trying to maintain an active lifestyle. Doing some household chores, taking stairs, taking care of my baby is improving my stamina slowly. But March didn't start on good note. I was down with viral that's what delayed this update :(

Goal 1F- Bringing down mortgage - NA Yet. There is major change in this goal. Will soon write a post about it.
Goal 2F- Having EF as 3 months of living Expenses - NA Yet.
Goal 3F- Save for Retirement - PASS.
Goal 4F- Survive on DH's salary alone- FAIL. We had to dip in our savings by 5K

Goal 1P- Getting up early - FAIL. I blame and completely blame DH and DB for this. DB was unwell for last 2 weeks. :(
Goal 2P- Having a balanced life - PASS. Managed an ill baby, managed house. Balanced as much as I could.


This was about me. How was your February?

Recap
January

Saturday, February 4, 2012

2012 Goals Tracking - January End

These are my goals for 2012.

Health:
1H) Aim to get back to my pre-preg day’s weight.

Financial:
Goals to work on once I join back my job

1F) I want to bring our mortgage to such an extent where my house can service itself.
2F) Maintain my EF as 3 months of expenses.
3F) If I can save for retirement as much as I did in 2010, that will be a good punch to future expenses.

Newly Added(missed in setting goals but was always there in my mind)
Goals to work on till I am on leave (unpaid and would be bonus if can be continued even when I join back)
4F) Manage our all monthly expenses within my DH's salary.

Personal :
1P) To start the habit of getting up at 6:00 in the morning.
2P) I think one of the most vague yet most important goals is to maintain a WORK-LIFE balance once I join back my job.

It's January end and let's see how am I fairing in these goals.

Goal 1H - Bringing my weight and stamina to pre-preg days - PASS. Though I'll be officially joining GYM only once I join back my office, I am trying to maintain an active lifestyle. Doing some household chores, taking stairs, taking care of my baby is improving my stamina slowly.

Goal 1F- Bringing down mortgage - NA Yet.
Goal 2F- Having EF as 3 months of living Expenses - NA Yet.
Goal 3F- Save for Retirement - NA Yet.
Goal 4F- Survive on DH's salary alone- PASS. Including an unplanned trip to Delhi. Wow. Touchwood !

Goal 1P- Getting up early - PASS. I am starting this with small steps because I desperately want to achieve this. I aimed that for this month I will get up between 7:30 to 8:00 and I consistently achieved it while in Hyderabad. For next month I am aiming to getting up between 7:00 to 7:30.
Goal 2P- Having a balanced life - PASS. Very difficult to quantify but when I look at my sheet for my baby's daily chores its almost filled with done. Also my house is generally in order so it seems I was able to strike a basic balance last month.


This was about me. How was your January?

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

My money is mine so are decisions associated with it.. period



Sometimes you come across a post that exactly describes your state of mind at that time. From last few days I am frustrated. In general I am way more irritable then normal me. I am trying to introspect and understand what's bothering beneath the surface but it is not an easy task.

Well I know for sure last year has a big role in that. As I have mentioned several times here already it was a year of murphy. I read an article by J.Money about stuff new home owners should think and it struck an immediate chord. There was probably not a single month where I didn't need to replace or buy something new for home.

I know, that's why we save emergency fund (my EF also includes my contingency fund). But I am a saver. I always like to save first and then spend. So, it was tough for me. Very very tough to part with so much of our saved money month after month. It's very hard to see your 18 months of EF depleting to 11 months EF.

On top of that what else can frustrate you. Don't waste brain guessing, its when people comment that when you have so much money (in bank) why you crib about expenses and why you do price comparing, why to delay some purchase, why not to keep full time maid? Why why why? That's something similar to what FB wrote recently in her article that how people think others get rich.

Let me just dribble my answers here, for my peace of mind sake:

1) I have money in bank because I am thoughtful about expenses which you are not.

2) I understand that 100 Rs. wasted each day costs me Rs 3000 in a month and in a year, Rs 3000 * 12 (Go do the math), that’s a very respectable sum FOR ME.

3) I have money because I work my a$$ for it. Even in pregnancy when sitting for long hours was next to impossible I worked as much as I could, because I understand that money needs to be earned.

4) I simply didn't inherit anything in this world. From my house to my car to everything I own, I have earned by working HARD.

5) I do price comparison because I understand that every penny saved is equal to 2 pennies earned.

6) Because I want to retire one day without being dependent on my children.

Frugality is tough especially when you come across such people. This blog and my Google Reader provide me with much needed motivation and peace of mind at such times. Thanks to you all PF blogger out there. You all rock.

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Goals for 2012


After taking unplanned break from forming goals for 2011, I am back. I am again trying to work on lots of issues at one time. It will be a big daunting failure if I will not decide on some (???) goals for 2012. I did OK in 2010 thanks to this blog. Hope to ATLEAST achieve that much and I will be one happy gal.

So here go my goals for 2012:

Health:
1) I have a new responsibility in my life. So it’s high time for me to be responsible for my health. I gained quite a lot of weight while pregnant (:)) and lost most of it but not all. I would like to go back to my pre-preg day’s weight. Ideally I would like to achieve this by the time my baby is 1 year. But, even if I achieve it by EOY (end of year), it will work. This will do lot of good to me financially, that might enable me to fit in my pre-preg days clothes.

Financial
My financial life is at lowest point ever. In 2011 I was not able to save even 5% of our in hand salary where this household is used to save close to 30% of its in hand. :( Plus me not working for first quarter in this year is also going to be a big strain on my finances. So my financial goals are going to be more challenging than first one.

1) I want to bring our mortgage to such an extent where my house can service itself. To achieve this by EOY, I need to bring in close to 8L money. This is going to be tough.

2) Maintain my EF as 3 months of expenses once I join back my job.

3) If I can save for retirement as much as I did in 2010, that will be a good punch to future expenses.

Personal
I wish I could become a SUPERMOM. :)
But Santa (on Christmas) and Lakshmiji (on Diwali), both of them told me that no wishes for you for this year. :( So, let’s formulate some goals in that case:

1) I am a late sleeper. What I mean by that is I sleep by 2:00 at night and love to get up at 10:00 in morning (I wish I could tell you the truth that 10:00 is actually 12 :)) But once you have a baby and you plan to join your job and you also decide that you will cook morning meal plus lunch yourself, this won't work right? So have to start the habit of getting up at 6:00 in the morning. Only if I would have thought of this while in school, I would have been favourite of all my teachers. :(. But it’s never too late, is it?

2) I think one of the most vague yet most important goals is to maintain a WORK-LIFE balance once I join back my job. This is going to be tough as there will be lots of unknown (to me) hurdles all along the way, but I will need your blessings and I sure can do it. If I can't, then I can always quit my job again (of course first I have to join again) and live this ideal life of being at home all day with my baby. :)

So 6 goals in all, what do you think will I be able to surprise myself by achieving at least few of them?

Are you also crazy enough to form goals in New Year?

Cost of bringing baby on this earth.. Happy New Year


Happy New Year everyone. And thanks for not reminding me that I am 4 days late. :)
Well, I wouldn't have been 4 days late if Manshu from OneMint would have posted his article 4 days earlier which prompted me to write a comment which, I thought, can be used as a post on my blog as well.

His one of the reader wanted to know about baby related costs.
No I am not going to write about future planning etc. because that is something I am still figuring out. Rather, I am going to talk about costs of bringing baby on this earth. And by cost I mean financial cost. :)

So here is the response I left on Manshu's article, reproduced verbatim, only with spelling corrections done. I hope Manshu will not mind. :)

....

Well this is something I was thinking to write on my own neglected blog from some time. But I guess writing to you here is a much better option (can’t I go to Jupiter for some time. It has 72 hrs. a day)

Well I think I will list following things as necessary:

1) Have your EF in place, pregnancy can have lots of unexpected complications which will lead to lots of tests, implication lots of money spend. Hardly any medical insurance covers costs of these tests. In my case, this cost was approx. 10K every month.

2) Increased grocery bills. You will be eating and definitely wanting to eat better food. More fruits, less junk etc. Approx. cost, 5-10 K every month.

3) All the medical insurances, almost, cover maternity hospital charges up to 50 K. Have another 50-60 K ready in your EF as your bill might go over 50 K if you are going for private hospital. Sometimes, your chosen facility may not be cashless in your insurance. In that case you have to first pay hospital which will then get reimbursed.

4) If a girl is working, she will get approx. 3 months of paid maternity, in India. After that if you wish to take more time to spend with your blessing, you have to take loss of pay. So, do consider that in your financial planning.

5) Your baby vaccinations will cost you around 7K in first 4 months. Rest I will let you know once I incur. Also there will be other Dr visits and I am not aware of any medical insurance which covers all this.

6) If one has premature delivery then babies may need to be put in Nursery, consider its cost as well. I don't have exact idea as fortunately I didn't need it, but I estimated it to close to 1L at my time.

7) If you are living in a single family, then once you want to join back after having baby, you have to consider cost of making arrangements for your baby care. It can be day care or some aaya, again cost have to be considered.

8) Your small one will need clothes, nappies (or diapers if your choose that), cosmetics etc. Here I will suggest not buying lots of stuff as babies grow FAST. And keep in mind baby stuff is EXPENSIVE. There will be other baby stuff required depending on choices you will make, like baby cot etc.

9) Once baby will be close to 5M, you might need other gears, like stroller, walker etc.

10) And if you still are left with some money, you can plan to buy more than basic things for you. I mean more than required maternity clothes. Well I couldn't :(

And then yes, Hemant's article is good for planning baby's future. But you also have to consider cost of bringing baby on this earth.

My one last piece of advice:

Babies are adorable and so is their stuff. You will want to buy anything and everything on this earth for your baby once you step in those baby shops. So be very very rational and ask yourself lots of time if you will actually need it. And don't try to buy everything in one go. Initially only buy what’s most important and as your baby will grow you will automatically know what is needed.